What separates a good instructor from a great leader?
It’s not experience. It’s not talent. It’s the willingness to keep learning.
In this episode of Defenders LIVE, Lora sits down with Brent Hickmon, founder of Haven Defense Company and Defenders USA instructor, to reflect on his first experience teaching at the A Girl & A Gun National Conference. Together, they unpack one of the most important leadership lessons Brent learned: the best instructors aren’t focused on proving themselves. They’re focused on serving the people in front of them. That shift changes everything.
Their conversation explores the role of humility, feedback, and continual growth in becoming an effective leader, whether you’re teaching on the range, leading a team, or raising a family. Brent also shares practical insights on firearm safety, preparing for training, and the exciting future of Haven Defense Company as it expands its business and training opportunities.
Great leaders don’t stop learning.
They stay coachable, serve others well, and continue refining their craft.
The best leaders never stop learning.
In this conversation with Brent Hickmon, we explore the leadership shift that separates good instructors from great ones. It’s not about having all the answers. It’s about serving others, staying humble, and being willing to grow.
You’ll learn:
Why great leaders actively seek feedback
How humility builds trust and influence
The mindset that transforms instructors
Practical advice for new shooters entering their first class
Brent’s vision for the future of Haven Defense Company
Whether you’re an instructor, business owner, parent, coach, or leader, this conversation is a reminder that leadership isn’t about being the expert in the room. It’s about helping others become better.
Watch more at Defenders-LIVE.com or subscribe for future conversations.
More about Brent at HavenDefenseCo.com.










