What if the biggest thing keeping you stuck is a lie you don’t even realize you’re telling yourself?
“I just need to get motivated.”
“I’m waiting for the right time.”
“I really want it.”
“I’m just being nice.”
Sometimes those things are true. And sometimes they’re the stories we tell ourselves because the truth requires us to do something uncomfortable.
In this episode, leadership coach Matt Ware and I get straight to the heart of it.
We talk about:
Why motivation may not be what you’re actually missing
How being “nice” can become a way of avoiding hard truths
Why wanting something isn’t the same as being willing to work for it
How past failures AND past successes can keep you stuck
Why honesty and personal responsibility are essential for real growth
What it means to stop waiting and play the shot that’s in front of you
At the heart of this conversation is something every defender needs: the courage to tell yourself the truth, take responsibility for what is yours, and act on the shot that’s in front of you.
In this episode of Defenders LIVE, I sit down with leadership coach Matt Ware for a candid conversation about the lies we can tell ourselves without even realizing it, and how those beliefs can quietly keep us stuck. We talk about the tension between waiting and taking action, why motivation isn’t something you can rely on, and the difference between saying you want something and being willing to change your behavior to get it.
We also dig into the cost of being “nice” when honesty is required, why keeping promises to yourself matters, and how both past failures AND past successes can keep you from moving forward. Matt challenges us to look honestly at what we’re holding onto, what we’re avoiding, and whether the life we’re living actually lines up with the life we say we want.
Watch Ep. 197 of Defenders LIVE with Matt Ware at Defenders-LIVE.com.
More about Matt at www.themattware.com.
